Built for separated families — calm or in conflict.

Parenting that keeps the kids at the center

Calm communication, shared schedules, and agreed ground rules. All in one place that respects your privacy and never sells your data.

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Sarah Chen · 2h ago
Can you take Emma to her dentist appointment Thursday at 3:30? I have a work conflict that afternoon.
AI draft: “Thursday at 3:30 works. I'll take Emma directly from school pickup. Let me know if the appointment details change.”
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Built for the hard parts of co-parenting

Most co-parenting apps feel like surveillance tools. Just parent is built on a different premise: that both parents want what's best for their children, and just need better tools.

Communication that de-escalates

AI-assisted drafting helps you say what you mean, calmly. The Calm Assist feature can soften tone before you send, so you protect the record without escalating the moment.

Shared ground rules, mutually agreed

"Our Agreement" lets both parents shake-on shared policies (like expense splits) that take effect only when both have accepted. No unilateral changes.

Privacy as a brand promise, not a footnote

Your data is never sold. AI features never train on your conversations. Tenant isolation means no data ever crosses between families.

“For the first time in three years, I didn't dread checking my messages. Just parent changed the whole dynamic. It's not about us anymore, it's about the kids.”

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Michael K.
Father of two · Toronto, ON

Every tool your family needs

A complete co-parenting platform, not a stitched-together collection of third-party apps.

Custody Calendar

Visual custody schedule with color-coded custody blocks and handoff reminders. Paid adds automatic holiday rules and Apple/Google Calendar sync.

FreeEnhanced in paid

Structured Messaging

Compose-and-send messages with subject lines and structured threads. A documented, immutable record both parents can rely on.

FreeEnhanced in paid

AI Calm Assist and Draft Helper

Before you send, let AI check your tone. Or let it ghostwrite messages and journal entries in your voice, with full context about your children and situation.

Paid plan

Handoff Journal

A structured log for each custody handoff: School, Health, Activities and more. Both parents see the same sections and can add AI-assisted entries.

FreeEnhanced in paid

Our Agreement

Shared policy settings (like expense splits) that only take effect when both parents have agreed. A digital handshake that creates an auditable record.

Free

Cool-Off Button

When an exchange is escalating, either parent can invoke a 24-hour cool-off period. Messaging pauses, both parties are notified, and the record shows who called it.

Free

Expense Management

Log expenses, attach receipts, and send reimbursement requests. Your agreed split applies automatically. Every transaction is documented.

FreeEnhanced in paid

Schedule Sharing

Share your children's schedule with grandparents and extended family. View-only access keeps them in the loop without putting them in the conversation.

Paid plan

Holiday Management

Set holiday rules once in Our Agreement: birthdays, statutory holidays, school breaks. The calendar updates automatically, year after year.

Paid plan

Both parents shape the rules. Together.

Other apps let one parent configure everything and expect the other to comply. Just parent does it differently: shared policies only take effect when both parents have accepted them. It's a digital handshake, not a unilateral decision.

Propose, review, agree

Either parent proposes a change: expense splits, handoff defaults, holiday rules. The other parent accepts or declines. Both get notified. The record shows exactly who agreed to what and when.

We get your co-parent on board

You start, we handle the invite. Your co-parent gets a clear, simple link. No app store hunting, no confusing setup. One tap and they're in. We make it easy because co-parenting only works when both people show up.

An auditable agreement, not a spreadsheet

Every policy change is timestamped and stored. If your expense split changes in January, the record shows what you both agreed to and when. No more disputed "I thought we agreed on 60/40."

Our Agreement
Active
Expense split
You · 60%
Co-parent · 40%
Agreed by both parents · Jan 12, 2026
Holiday split
Alternating years
Agreed by both parents · Jan 12, 2026
Pending your response
Co-parent proposed changing the expense split to 50/50
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We do not sell your data.
We do not train AI on it.

Co-parenting data is some of the most sensitive information that exists. It involves children, legal agreements, and family conflict. We built just parent with that in mind.

Read our full privacy commitment →

Strict tenant isolation

Your family's data is completely isolated. No AI feature can access data from another family. Enforced at the architecture level, not just policy.

No AI training on your data

When you use AI features, your conversations are not used to train any model. We use Anthropic's API with data retention controls. Your words stay yours.

No ads. Ever.

We make money from subscriptions, not from selling your attention or your data to advertisers. This is a promise, not a phase.

Court-admissible records

All messages are timestamped and immutable. If you ever need documentation for legal proceedings, your records are there, accurate and unaltered.

The Cool-Off Button

When emotions are running high, just parent lets either parent pause the conversation for 24 hours. Both parents are notified. Messaging resumes automatically. The record shows who called it and when. No interpretation needed.

This is the feature family lawyers ask about most.

I can't believe you did that again. Every single time...
Cool-off period active · 23h 14m remaining. Messages will resume automatically.
Messaging paused for both parents

Up and running in minutes

No lengthy setup. Upload your separation agreement and just parent does the rest.

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Create your account

Sign up in under a minute. Real Free plan, no card required.

2

Set up in seconds

Optionally upload your separation agreement and our AI pre-fills your schedule, custody split and key dates. Skip it and set up manually. Takes about 3 minutes either way.

3

We get your co-parent on board

Send an invite and we handle the rest. Your co-parent gets a simple link to join your shared account. Their data, their access, zero friction.

4

Start co-parenting

Message, schedule, journal, and agree on shared policies. Together.

Simple, honest pricing

Generous free tier. Powerful paid plan. No tricks, no tiers designed to confuse.

Free
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Real Free plan, no card required
Includes:
  • Essential featureslast 30 days of history
  • Messaging
  • Journaling
  • Expense Management
  • Add to your calendarup to 30 days ahead
  • Custody change requests
  • PD days and school breaks
  • Events (appointments, activities)
  • PLUSbonus features
  • Our Agreement: shared ground rules and policies
  • Separation agreement upload (pre-fills key details and schedule)
  • Cool-Off Button: 24h pause on message exchanges
  • Custody Calendar (full schedule view)
  • Contact Management (up to 5 contacts)
Start for free
Free for 14 days
Paid Plan
$120 / year (USD)
Early introductory pricing
Everything in Free, plus:
  • Premium featuresno caps + AI assistance
  • Messaging: AI Assisted Writing, unlimited history, read receipts
  • Journaling: AI Assisted Writing, unlimited history
  • Calm Assist: AI validated messaging keeping lines of communication clear
  • Expense Management: auto-split percentages and dispute workflow
  • Contact Management unlimited
  • Premium calendarbeyond 30 days, plus sharing and sync
  • Holiday Management
  • Share Schedule with Family and Grandparents
  • iCal Calendar Syncing with Google and Apple
  • Records & storagedocuments, photos, and legal exports
  • Legal Export of Journal, Payments, Calendar and Messages with AI framing
  • Document Management
  • Shared Photos
  • Storage up to 10 GB (documents, files, photos)
Try free for 14 days

Real Free plan starts immediately, no card required. Paid plan trial is free for 14 days and requires a credit card. Cancel anytime.

Things people ask before signing up

Does my co-parent have to use it too?
For messaging and shared features, yes, you'll need to invite them. But you can start, upload your separation agreement, and set up your own profile before they join.
Who pays for the subscription?
Only one parent pays. The paid plan is a shared household subscription that covers both parents, so whichever of you starts it covers the family. And there's no obligation to upgrade - the Real Free plan stays free, no card required. If you do start the 14-day trial, your card isn't charged until the trial ends, and you can cancel anytime.
What if our situation is high-conflict?
Just parent is built for exactly that. Immutable message records, the Cool-Off Button, and AI calm checking are all designed for situations where communication has broken down. Many of our users came to us after things got bad, and that's fine. You don't need to be cooperative already for it to help.
Does the AI read my private messages?
AI features are only invoked when you actively use them. They don't passively read your messages. When you do use AI assist, your data is not used to train any AI model. You can turn AI features off entirely in settings.
Is this admissible in court?
All messages are timestamped, immutable, and exportable as a PDF. Many family lawyers and courts across Canada and the US accept just parent records as documentation. Ask your lawyer what they need.
What happens to my data if I cancel?
You can export all your messages, journal entries, and records before cancelling. We retain your data for 90 days after cancellation. After that, it is permanently deleted.

Your kids deserve two parents who can communicate

Create a free account in under a minute. Real Free plan, no card required. No pressure. Just a better way to co-parent.