Compose-and-send messages with subject lines, AI tone checking, and a built-in pause button. A documented, immutable record both parents can rely on.
Consumer messaging apps - text threads, WhatsApp, iMessage - fail co-parents in predictable ways. Tone gets misread. Messages mix logistics with emotion. There's no record when disputes escalate. There's no mechanism to slow down when things get heated.
Hi, can you take Emma to her dentist appointment Thursday at 3:30? I have a work conflict that afternoon.
Message uses accusatory language that could escalate conflict between co-parents.
Calm Assist found no concerns. Your message is clear and constructive.
Calm Assist analyzes your draft before you send it. If it detects inflammatory language, personal attacks, or escalation patterns, it flags the message with a specific reason, so you know exactly what it found.
You're never blocked from sending. You can edit and recheck, send anyway, or formally disagree with the assessment. Calm Assist surfaces the issue - the decision is always yours.
AI Draft Helper writes the message for you - in your voice, with awareness of your children's names, ages, and current schedule. It doesn't sound like a form letter. It sounds like you, on a good day.
You review, edit, and send. You're always in control of what gets sent. The AI is a starting point, never an autopilot.
When an exchange is escalating, either parent can invoke a 24-hour cool-off period. Messaging pauses for both. Both are notified simultaneously. The record shows who called it and when. Messaging resumes automatically.
Everything else keeps running normally.
This pauses all messaging between you and the other party. Use this when the conversation needs space - not as a way to avoid it.
All messages are timestamped at send time and cannot be altered afterward - not by you, not by your co-parent, not by just parent. The record is exactly what was written. Paid plan users can export to PDF with a SHA-256 digital hash signature confirming the export has not been altered after generation.
| Feature | Free | Paid |
|---|---|---|
| Structured messaging (compose + send) | ||
| Subject lines | ||
| Immutable, timestamped records | ||
| 30-day message history | - | |
| Unlimited message history | - | |
| AI Draft Helper | - | |
| Calm Assist tone checker | - | |
| Cool-Off Button | ||
| Read receipts | - | |
| Court-admissible legal export (PDF) | - |
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